Those experiencing culture shock go through distinct phases that can be ongoing, or only appear at certain times.
- Stage 1 – The honeymoon stage
At the beginning, all the new things encountered might be interesting, wonderful, or even exciting. This feeling will slowly decrease and change to the next phase.
- Stage 2 – The disillusionment stage
The negative effects of culture shock come into play. You will start encountering difficulties or differences in your daily routine. You will feel discontent, impatient, angry, or sad. As an effect, you will, most probably, compare where you are living to your home country in an unfavourable way.
Culture shock will happen gradually. Understand that it will take you some time to understand your new culture and to adapt to it.
- Stage 3 – The understanding stage / Enlightenment
You will start understanding your host country’s culture and why people act like they do. You will get more familiar with your environment, making you feel less lost. Finally, you will get the feeling of wanting to belong, finding ways to slowly overcome the differences.
- Stage 4 – The integration stage
You will understand the goods and bads of your host country. Besides, you will finally overcome the differences and start to have a feeling of belonging.
This stage will be only experienced if you are staying for a very long period of time.
- Stage 5 – The reverse culture shock
The longer you live and work abroad, the more accustomed you will become to your way of life in your new country. So, when the day comes that you move back to your home country, you may be surprised to experience what experts call “reverse culture shock.” It has 4 phases:
- Phase 1 – Disengagement. This stage starts before you leave for home. You may experience a range of emotions – sadness to leave friends and teammates, excitement to see family again and uncertainty about what is in your future.
- Phase 2 – Initial euphoria. You will be excited to see family and friends and share your experience with them. This stage occurs shortly before leaving for home and it often ends when you realise that most people are not as interested in your experiences abroad as you had hoped.
- Stage 3 – Irritability/hostility. As you sense that people may not be as interested as you had hoped you will start feeling:
- Boredom and restlessness
- Frustration and misunderstanding
- Loneliness and homesickness for where you were
- Changes in personal relationships and in how you relate to your native culture
- Stage 4 – Readjustment/adaptation
- Phase 1 – Disengagement. This stage starts before you leave for home. You may experience a range of emotions – sadness to leave friends and teammates, excitement to see family again and uncertainty about what is in your future.